From the psychological research, particularly that relating to Bolby’s famous Attachment Theory, it is clear that there are distinct styles of relating.
The most basic distinction is in terms of the expression of emotions.
Asked about Madonna, Guy said: 'She's a manifester, if there ever was one.'First-rate manifester.
Madonna makes things happen.' Then, in what appeared to be a swipe at her 23-year-old love interest Jesus Luz, he continued: 'Put Madonna up against any twenty-three-year-old, she'll outwork them, outdance them, outperform them.
We enjoy being with someone when we have an easy time communicating or when we have a lot to talk about.
There is a whole body of infant brain research that links our early attachment relationships to our style of relating as adults and I think it’s all pretty great stuff.So my question, is this something I need to accept about him or is there a way I can help him to open up more emotionally? I think this is an important question and probably something most women have had to grapple with.