He doesn’t worry too much about what others think about him. Strong, dominant characters don’t shy away from controversy and stand up for themselves. If an Alpha Male feels he is being manipulated by a girl, he doesn’t waste time figuring out the reasons, he just moves on to someone else.
He lives by his own rules, and isn’t submissive to even the most beautiful woman.
To be honest, Georgian men are on a strong “never again” list, but I’m willing to be proven wrong – maybe there one decent Georgian man out there (most likely they are already married)?
When I told many Georgians- whether it was women or men, about these continuous situations, it was met by men saying “It’s not all Georgians”. Whereas the women in Mestia would say “why not go to the police?
Generally if you are a woman or women without men, your fair game.
Hitching in Georgia, 60% of the time comes with some sexual advance. In a small place like Mestia there would be only 2 outcomes from reporting such behaviour.
Even when I have been dating a Georgian, their friends still have made inappropriate advances (so much for bros before hoes). He said his friend/uncle (whoever it was) will take me. It gets to a point, he grabs underneath my legs and pulling me towards him. No interest at all and certainly not encouraging anything (as much as I can try to do without being rude). You know, because having tattoos or wearing tight jeans or simply being a woman means its your fault. Its met with a shrug of the shoulders and a reaction of “you’re ok, so what”. The instances of the sexual advances and assaults are increasing, or perhaps people are just getting sick of it happening.
The screaming works and he gets in the car and drives off. I call the guy I’m seeing crying with what had happened and his response was “oh, really”. So start walking back and just before the house entrance he grabs and kisses me – more like licks my face as I was not wanting this at all. These are just a couple of the stories I have on file, meeting foreigners who have also experienced these things. Does this stop me wanting to come back to Georgia or even Svaneti to buy land/house start a business? Just if I do decide to have a boyfriend, he won’t be Georgian. I’m curious to know if any Georgian women experience the same.
It’s the way they approach a conversation or how they attempt to pick up a girl. After a quick “Hey”, it leads straight to, you are beautiful, let’s have sex or send me a sexy pic. ” It generally leads to absolutely no apologetic tone or any remorse for these kinds of thoughts.
Now of course, this happens all over the world with guys! So if people don’t see the problem, how can they fix it?
Even if you are with a Georgian; they or their friends don’t care either (shouldn’t you care if someone – especially you are sleeping with – is uncomfortable or scared? It’s actually kind of disgusting to have such disrespect for women. The fact I’m single, I’m foreign, I have tattoos or just being born with a woman.
Really these are not reasons for women to be treated this way.
When an Alpha Male sits, he leans back, appears relaxed, and takes up all the space he needs. If you’re naturally introverted, make sure you speak loudly enough for others to hear and understand you.